Do you have a friend? One that you can tell anything to without judgement? One that you can get GOOD advice from that will lead you on a positive track. It is very important to have a positive pal on your side, on that too walks with God. It is good to have people in our life to hold us accountable, but not to judge. Advice can come from others when they have Christ in their hearts, because he will guide them too. Remember we have people in our lives that need us as well.